Keynsham Methodist Church - Marriages
If you are planning to get married and are considering a Methodist church, here are guidelines to help you.
What is the first step?
Usually a couple wishing to get married should approach the Methodist Minister of the church at which they wish to be married. This would normally have to be in the civil registration district in which they live. Both centres of Keynsham Methodist Church are registered for marriages.
Marriage preparation is provided locally by the minister. The best route is to start making links withÂ our minister as soon as you know when you would like the wedding to take place. As part of the legal process, prospective marriage partners will need to go to the local registry office and register your intention to get married. Details regarding this can be found on the Bath & North East Somerset website at: http://www.bathnes.gov.uk/BathNES/communityandliving/marriages/default.htm
One of us is divorced. Is that OK?
The Methodist Church is generally willing to marry people who have been divorced, while their previous spouse is still alive, as long as there are not major obvious reasons why it would be inappropriate to do so. There are a very few ministers who will never marry someone who has been divorced, but such a minister will refer the couple to a minister who is willing to marry divorced people. The best advice is to speak to the local minister or the superintendent minister of the circuit where you live.
The local minister will be able to explain the legalities about going to the registrar for a certificate and so on. The Methodist Church does not argue that the grounds for divorce should be changed from the present ones. We would certainly encourage a couple going through difficulties in their relationship to seek advice, counselling and support to see if they can rebuild it. We would also expect people to take very seriously their responsibilities to any children of the marriage.
Does one of us have to be a Methodist?
People wanting to marry in church don't have to be members of the church, but most ministers will ask them why they wish to marry in church. A church marriage is a solemn Christian ceremony, with prayers and Bible readings reflecting Christian understandings of what marriage is about. Whilst people wishing to marry in a Methodist church do not need to be church members, most ministers will look for a genuine desire on the part of a couple to take their marriage seriously along the lines set out in the service. Discussing what this means in practice will be part of the marriage preparation.
What if we are from two different denominations?
Many marriages in Methodist churches (and many couples marrying in Methodist churches) include people from different Christian denominations. Where two people from different church traditions marry, it is quite common for ministers from both churches to take part in the ceremony. This is welcomed. Sometimes, people from different faiths marry â€“ and there is advice available for such marriages.
For further information
The first point of contact is our minister who can discuss your questions with you.
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